#8 - Judgement of Myself

I hope everyone is doing well. I just had a great conversation with a friend of mine. I have been seeing him the past couple weeks after not really communicating for a few years. Honestly, it’s refreshing that there are people you can connect with after an extended period of time and it’s like you never missed a beat. I love that and I think it speaks to who we are as humans. Our communication with each other is a vital part of our survival. If I take care of myself first, then have a great conversation where I am truly present and putting myself in their shoes, I feel fulfilled during and after the conversation. It’s almost a drug in my eyes.

I notice that we are judgmental creatures and judge people for the smallest decisions when in reality most decisions we need to make are made in a split decision. No thinking required just goings on instinct. And by that logic it does not seem fair to judge someone by these decisions. It does not seem fair to judge as all. I heard a quote regarding this logic. “Every stone you cast there is three coming back your way.” I could have butchered that but you get the point.

Anyway, I hope you all have a great week. Spread the love people. You may make a real impact in someone’s life and all you need to do is listen and love.

Enjoy your life,

Ben